The High Value Man

Being a High Value Man 

MASTERFUL WAYS TO BECOME THE HIGH VALUE MAN..

STOP CHASING.   IT IS NOT WHAT YOU WERE MADE TO DO.

INSTEAD, ATTRACT.

Most guys are constantly chasing girls..

Even SIMPING & begging them to approve or accept or select them..

How backwards is this?!

A man was made for a mission, to develop high value as he pursues his purpose.

You can & should focus your energy, especially as a young man coming up, looking to marry & have a family..

..on BUILDING into yourself AS MUCH VALUE AS POSSIBLE BEFORE ALL OF THIS HAPPENS IN YOUR LIFE.

YOU CAN & WILL ATTRACT THE RIGHT TYPE OF WOMAN, WHO IS WIFE MATERIAL, AND THEN CAN BUILD A SOLID FAMILY FROM THERE.

Let's talk about what comprises a HIGH VALUE MAN.

1. IDENTITY- He knows exactly who he is.  His identity is secure. He is not lost, trying to fit in, struggling with rejection anymore.  He walks confidently in that identity & others feel it.

2. RESPECT- He commands RESPECTS.  Not demands, COMMANDS.  This comes from living it authentically inside.  HE knows he is a Noble man & atmospheres change when he enters.  We are not talking about being a diety or lording over anyone else.  We do not stand for that here.  We stand for having a strong steel backbone and that means solid character. WATCH how OTHER men respect him and how women do too!  Being RESPECTABLE means behaving respectfully.  Treating others with honor as he would want to be treated.. always.

3. HEALTH-  a High Value Man is not a fat ass, sickly, obese dude.  He doesn't have stringy dirty oily hair, or let himself go.  What Noble man would do that?   It is not to say things don't happen occasionally in life, causing bouts of struggle with being sick or overweight.  But fix it & get yourself put together.  Hygiene goes in this category also. He takes care of himself, investing properly in his skin, hair, nails & overall presentation. How could one attract, land & keep a first-class woman of great virtue if he has really poor health consistently?  This is ridiculous.  It is so vital we put in the work to eat proper nutrition, monitor our health, especially as we age.. and to make exercise, fitness & strength training a part of life.  There are so many ways to shatter excuses nowadays & find creative ways to crush this last part.  Even without a gym membership, resources abound.  Get outdoors, get steps in, lift heavy, hike, build something.  It is truly just about DOING it, not about knowing what to do.

4. FINANCE- a High Value Man has a record of making right financial decisions, is out of debt or close to it & seeks to be a very resourceful type.  Depending on the system, or debt or even a love interest to prop him up financially is absolutely not a Virtue of the High Value Man.  We have courses & articles to help with this category! Some things that immediately should be focused on would be:

Consider being a business owner instead of building another man's dream.  This is usually a process for many and can be done outside of your time at work.

Become fully debt free.  This goes hand in hand with living below your means.  If you make $8,000 a month and are spending $9,000, you have a serious problem coming.  Been there!

5. EDUCATION-  Here at Man of Valor, we do not believe in the idea that only college graduates are considered to be educated people.  There are so many forms of being educated, whether its formal schooling, books, training, courses, sales experience, life experience, global education in the form of seeing the world & how it works & much more.  A High Value Man would be somehow putting the time in, investing into his brain in the ways he knows to do it and always exploring new forms of educating himself.

6. CONFIDENCE- 

He is confident is himself, his appearance, his body language & his skills.  He knows what he brings to the table.  Even more Noble is the man who is supremely confident, yet extremely humble with other people.  He lets the right ones identify his High Value and does not wield this as a weapon on them.  He knows what he’s worth & has a “nothing to prove attitude” with others.  Magically, after applying the above virtue habits daily & very consistently, your natural confidence rises as a pure biproduct of those same habits.  You know you are being the real deal and living it. 

These are the most well-known virtues among High Value Men that truly separated us from the masses..  the Men from the boys as it were.   

Hopefully this has helped bring some clarification about what compromises a man of High Value, and you can become one too.  It is certainly a process for each of us men. The key is knowledge and then application to consistently work toward it.

You can walk around commanding genuine respect from other men, and then women as well.

You can have a successful life financially.

You can build a beautiful family & Legacy. 

You can live in fantastic health.

Where do you stand in your understanding & practice of these traits?

 You can become the great Man of Valor you were created for..

Brad,

Founder Man of Valor